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A calm space for bilateral stimulation & self-regulation

מרחב רגוע לגירוי דו-צדדי ולוויסות עצמי

A free, gentle EMDR-style bilateral-stimulation tool — moving light, soft alternating audio, and optional haptics — alongside grounding techniques you can use any time. Bright, quiet, and made to feel safe.

This is educational self-help, not therapy. This page is not a substitute for a licensed EMDR clinician. EMDR is a structured, clinician-guided treatment and should ideally be done with a trained professional, especially for trauma. Nothing here treats, cures, or diagnoses any condition. If bilateral stimulation brings up distressing material, stop and reach out to a qualified mental-health professional.

In crisis or unsafe? Israel: ERAN 1201 · Sahar (online). International: contact your local emergency number or a crisis line in your country. במצוקה? ער"ן 1201 · סה"ר. בחו"ל — פנו לשירותי החירום המקומיים.

What is EMDR?

EMDR — Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing — is a structured psychotherapy developed by Francine Shapiro. It helps people process distressing memories so they feel less overwhelming over time. A core ingredient is bilateral stimulation: rhythmic left-right input (eye movements, taps, or tones) while you briefly hold a memory in mind, which is thought to support the brain's natural way of integrating experience.

Bilateral stimulation

Left ↔ right rhythm

Following a moving light with your eyes, alternating taps, or tones panned ear-to-ear gives the brain a steady back-and-forth rhythm while you notice a thought or feeling.

גירוי דו-צדדי — תנועה קצבית מצד לצד.

What it may help

Distress & stuck memories

In clinical settings EMDR is used for PTSD and trauma-related distress, and is being explored for anxiety and grief. Outcomes vary, and it is delivered by a trained clinician — not a self-guided cure.

נחקר עבור PTSD, חרדה ואבל — תמיד בליווי מטפל/ת מוסמך/ת.

This page

Self-regulation only

The tool here offers bilateral stimulation for calming and focus practice. It does not deliver EMDR therapy, which involves clinical assessment, a treatment plan, and a trained guide.

הכלי כאן הוא לתרגול הרגעה — לא טיפול EMDR מלא.

The 8 phases at a glance

History & treatment planning. The clinician learns your history and identifies target memories.
Preparation. You build coping and self-regulation skills (like a safe place and grounding) before any processing.
Assessment. A specific memory, image, belief, emotion, and body sensation are identified and rated.
Desensitization. Bilateral stimulation is applied while you briefly attend to the memory, until distress lowers.
Installation. A preferred, positive belief is strengthened in connection with the memory.
Body scan. You notice and clear any residual physical tension linked to the memory.
Closure. Each session ends with returning to a calm, stable, present-moment state.
Reevaluation. The next session reviews progress and chooses what to work on next.
EMDR הוא טיפול מובנה בן 8 שלבים המועבר על ידי מטפל/ת מוסמך/ת. הכלי בעמוד הזה נוגע רק ברכיב הגירוי הדו-צדדי, לצורך תרגול הרגעה ווויסות — ואינו תחליף לטיפול.

Free bilateral stimulation tool

A glowing light moves gently left ↔ right. You can follow it with your eyes, add soft alternating audio (left ear / right ear), or feel a vibration on a phone. Sit comfortably, breathe, and let your eyes track the light at a pace that feels easy.

Press Start when you're readyGet comfortable. You can stop any time.

Slower = calmer. A common range is 0.5–1.0 Hz.

How big the moving light is.

Soft tone alternates hard-left ↔ hard-right.

0 = no timer (runs until you stop).

Passes: 0

Use gently. If you feel dizzy, more distressed, or flooded by a difficult memory, stop, place both feet on the floor, look around the room, and breathe slowly. This is a calming practice — not a way to force through trauma alone. For trauma processing, work with a licensed EMDR clinician.

Grounding & self-regulation

Free techniques you can use any time to come back to the present and soothe your nervous system. No app, no account — just you.

Box breathing

4 · 4 · 4 · 4 breathing

Inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4. Follow the orb: it grows as you breathe in and shrinks as you breathe out.

breathe
Press Begin to start

נשימת קופסה — שאיפה 4, החזקה 4, נשיפה 4, החזקה 4.

5-4-3-2-1

Grounding through the senses

Name, slowly and out loud if you can:

  • 5 things you can see
  • 4 things you can feel / touch
  • 3 things you can hear
  • 2 things you can smell
  • 1 thing you can taste

5-4-3-2-1 — חמישה דברים שרואים, ארבעה שמרגישים, שלושה ששומעים, שניים שמריחים, אחד שטועמים.

Butterfly hug

Self-soothing bilateral taps

Cross your arms over your chest, hands on opposite shoulders or upper arms, and gently tap left, right, left, right — slow and even — while breathing. A self-administered form of bilateral stimulation often taught for calming.

חיבוק הפרפר — טפיחות עדינות לסירוגין על הכתפיים, להרגעה.

Safe place

Safe / calm place visualization

Picture a place — real or imagined — where you feel calm and safe. Notice what you see, hear, and feel there. Give it a one-word cue (e.g. "shore") you can return to. You can run the light or breathing orb softly while you settle into the image.

מקום בטוח — דמיינו מקום רגוע ובטוח, ובחרו מילת עוגן לחזור אליו.

Curated resources

Reputable organizations and free tools. To actually do EMDR for trauma, find a trained clinician through one of the directories below.

🧠 EMDR organizations & clinician directories

🌿 Trauma-informed & free mindfulness

📞 Crisis & support lines

📚 From iddoperez.ai

Reminder: this page is educational self-help, not therapy, and not a substitute for a licensed EMDR clinician. It does not treat, cure, or diagnose trauma or any condition. EMDR should ideally be done with a trained professional.

If you're in crisis: Israel — ERAN 1201 / Sahar; elsewhere — your local emergency number or a crisis line via findahelpline.com.

לזכרה של עלמה ז״ל — iddoperez.ai